What is a “whiny little bitch?”
The term whiny little bitch is a derogatory term that is assigned to an individual mostly and defines them in a way that highlights how they are perceived by another person or a group. The perception is that they are overly sensitive and reactive people who are constantly complaining that they are the victim. (Does this sound like anyone you know? Maybe a certain leader?) Basically, they avoid taking any responsibility for their situation and display weak and immature behavior.
I do want to acknowledge that calling someone a whiny little bitch does have misogynistic roots. Referring to someone has a whiny little bitch in the context of this blog is not a jab at women. Men have referred to women as bitches for centuries. The term is often used in reference to women, and comparing them to female dogs- particularly female dogs in heat, highlighting their lewdness or aggressiveness. So, in laymen terms, women whose worth didn’t depend on whether a man found her worthy, thus causing the mans ego to be injured.
The word has been used in modern to demean or control women, especially those who are assertive, sexual, opinionated, and refusing to conform to societal norms expectations; you know, all the traits that are celebrated in men.
Men often call other men whiny little bitches to highlight their weaknesses or their display of emotion., and men use this term to shame other men for “having feelings.” The term is used to emasculate men, reinforcing toxic gender norms.
The truth is though, that men and women both have masculine and feminine energy regardless of assigned sex at birth. Both genders have male and female hormones. Both energies are necessary to make a person whole, and sometimes the sex assigned to a person at birth is the energy that is noticed more in a person, but it is not the whole of their identity.
Some examples of feminine energy traits seen in both males and females are intuition, nurturance, receptivity, creativity, emotional depth, compassion, surrender, and gentleness. Masculine energy encompasses the traits of logic, protection, direction, and independence, also seen in both males and females. If bitch is a term that is used to refer to women, then with this logic, it can also be a term used to describe men.
Women have been working for decades to take back the power of the word bitch, turning this weapon into armor. You may recall terms such as “bad bitch,” and ‘boss bitch.” Women now own this word and are redefining it to make it less derogatory. Being a “bad bitch, means being confident and independent. Being a “boss bitch, means being a leader and assertive. These are masculine qualities that women definitely possess, so essentially the term has now been used to normalize healthy masculine traits in women. When a woman uses the term to call herself a bitch, she isn’t lowering herself, she is raising the bar, proclaiming her willingness and her right to take up space!
While everything has a light side, like the reclaiming of the term bitch by women to take that power away from men and use it to normalize masculine traits in women, there are also shadow sides too. Pick from whatever theoretical perspective you chose, whether it be wave particle duality, matter and anti-matter, Newton’s Third Law (for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction), Yin and Yang, Yogic Philosophy, or Hermetic Principles- the shadow side of the reappropriated term bitch must exist.
So, what is the shadow side of the reappropriated term of the word bitch? It is dominance, aggression, rigidity, possessiveness, repressiveness, controlling, and isolating, which ultimately leads to the masking of vulnerability. To mask vulnerability, whiny little bitches need to engage in the use of something called defense mechanisms. This includes the use of tactics like denial, rationalization, minimization, deflection, lashing out, and avoidance. Without these tactics, whiny little bitches cannot control the narrative and be the victim (Insert name of whiny little bitch in chief).
So, when I refer to God, as a “whiny little bitch,” in this blog, I am referring to his need for admiration, control, dominance, possessiveness, repressiveness, overbearing tendencies, and isolation tactics, to mask his vulnerabilities and portray himself as a victim of his own creation; imperfect humans who cause him narcissistic injury. What are God’s vulnerabilities? Feeling betrayed, rejected, worthless, having a fragile image, being exposed as a hypocrite, being exposed as “imperfect,” his need for admiration, and his sense of superiority.
It makes sense though, since the Christian God was a product of man, and him projecting his humanness onto God. That is what I intend to discuss on this blog; mans creation of a God with a human personality, to control the masses and take power away from women through the destruction of the Divine Feminine. I will do this by providing accurate accounts of history, neuro science, psychology, sociology, and archeology among other disciplines, to show how “religion,” has been the foundation of the world of suffering in which we live.
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